Allison and Scott are high school sweethearts who met more than a decade ago. She liked his confidence and charisma, and the fact that he frequently made her laugh! He was attracted to her beauty, innocence and responsiveness to his sense of humor!
Over the years, through hard work and a strong commitment to each other, their relationship evolved and their love matured and deepened even as they maintained their unique identities.
So after securing the blessing of Allison’s father, and while enjoying a walk along the Sacramento River, Scott asked Allison to become his wife and his partner for life. And of course she said “Yes!”
Congratulations on your upcoming wedding! This is undoubtedly an exciting time for you and your beloved as you plan the special event that marks the beginning of your life together as a married couple.
At the heart of your wedding celebration is the ceremony that unites the two of you before your family and friends. The vows of love and commitment that you exchange on this day set the stage for your happy and successful marriage. Your wedding ceremony should be special, unique, and perfect for you.
The most important consideration, when choosing a wedding officiant, is finding someone with whom you feel comfortable and who feels honored and delighted to be sharing your special day with you.
Here are some questions to consider, as you make this important decision: Continue reading →
Prior to January 1, 2015 if a couple purchased a Confidential Marriage License in California, they were advised that it must be used in the county where it was purchased. A Public Marriage License, on the other hand, could be purchased in any county in California and then used in the same or a different county within the State.
Like many of the couples I have worked with over the years, I met my sweetheart through an online dating site. In preparing my own profile, I answered many questions in an attempt to weed out potential partners who were “not a good fit” – questions like “How would you spend your ideal date?” or “What is your spiritual practice, if any?” or “Are you interested in having children someday?”
A few months ago I came across the book “Show Your Work” by Austin Kleon. While it’s a great book about creativity and business, there was one section that was not only thought-provoking but also seemed to pertain to relationships. Continue reading →
One of the greatest blessings of my calling as a wedding officiant is having the opportunity to stay in touch with the many wonderful couples I marry.
And some of the sweetest gifts of the holiday season are the cards I receive, mostly with photos, showing me the growth of their families and the continued strength of their love.
To all of “my” couples – whether or not you send cards! – Thank You, from the bottom of my heart, for staying in touch by mail and social media. While I don’t send cards, I DO send love to each of you!
May 2015 be filled with laughter, joy, and many blessings!
A few months ago, after having trouble with a microphone at the beginning of a wedding ceremony which, unfortunately, meant that the 100-plus guests did not hear what was said, I asked my wedding colleagues for some advice. Their excellent suggestions follow. Continue reading →
Cinthia likes to have structure and a back-up plan; Steve has an “it will all work out” attitude. Both were necessary when their wedding ceremony, originally planned for a beautiful resort in Cabo San Lucas, had to be relocated due to Hurricane Odile.
Plan B was the beautiful Hyatt Regency in downtown Sacramento, and in spite of a forecast of rain the sky turned blue and sunny just in time for their 4:00 p.m. wedding ceremony.