A Quartet of Vizcaya Weddings

By | September 15, 2014

A Quartet of Vizcaya Weddings Within the past month I have performed four weddings at Vizcaya, a beautiful mansion / bed-and-breakfast / wedding venue in midtown Sacramento.

Here’s a little recap – with photos, of course! – from each of these celebrations. Read more »

Oak Farm Vineyards: Lodi Wedding Venue

By | August 26, 2014

As a member of a local group of bloggers, I recently had an opportunity to attend a private media preview of the soon-to-be-opened new tasting room at Oak Farm Vineyards in Lodi, California.Oak Farm Vineyards - Lodi Wedding Venue

Located on North DeVries Road, and less than an hour’s drive from Sacramento, Oak Farm Vineyards is a retreat-like setting on a private road, where birdsong and the happy murmuring of wine-tasters were the prevailing sounds. Read more »

The Union Hill Inn Wedding of Patricia and Arnaud

By | August 15, 2014

“Love is the creator of our favorite memories, and the foundation of our fondest dreams. Love is a promise that is always kept, a fortune that can never be spent, a seed that can flourish in even the most unlikely of places.”

When Patricia came to California on business and happened to meet Arnaud, she immediately knew that it would not be the last time they would encounter each other.

Although their relationship was initially long-distance, Patricia and Arnaud quickly recognized that they had a special connection. When she moved to California, they became an inseparable couple and realized that they had each found their soul mate and life partner.

So on a very warm Wednesday in August, Patricia and Arnaud were married before an intimate group of family and friends, some of whom had traveled from Europe to witness the ceremony. The Union Hill Wedding of Patricia and Arnaud Read more »

A Summer Wedding in Winters

By | August 6, 2014

A Summer Wedding in Winters As members of the United States Coast Guard, Jon and Sarah met while stationed in Seattle. They were friends for the first year, spending a lot of time talking and really getting to know each other before they even began dating.

They found they had much in common, and over time their bond grew and deepened, becoming even stronger during the year that Sarah was stationed in Florida and theirs was a long-distance relationship. They soon recognized they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together.

So they had a small courthouse wedding in early 2013, and began planning a larger celebration to include their family and friends. And a year and a half later, on a hot summer day in Winters, California, Jon and Sarah spoke their vows, exchanged rings, and were formally united as Husband and Wife.
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Grand Sierra Pointe: A Beautiful Ceremony Site in Foresthill

By | July 28, 2014

Dearly beloved, we are gathered here before family and friends to celebrate with this man and this woman as they are joined today in marriage.

As you sit here in this peaceful place, please take a moment to notice the stillness that surrounds us, the majestic trees towering overhead and the solid earth that grounds and supports us. Foresthill's Grand Sierra Pointe  - May 2014 Read more »

Happy Anniversary to Me: Fourteen Years as a Sacramento Wedding Officiant!

By | June 24, 2014

Happy Anniversary to Me - Rev. Jeri Murphy

June 24th is a very special day for me.

It was on this date 14 years ago – June 24, 2000 – that I nervously performed my very first wedding ceremony.

(I wrote about that first ceremony, and Tim and Tracy’s continuing love story, here.)

The joy I felt on that day helped me to realize that being a Wedding Officiant was my calling.

In the years between that first wedding and yesterday’s intimate commitment ceremony, I have performed 676 weddings, commitment ceremonies or renewal of vows. Read more »

An Unplugged Wedding

By | June 19, 2014

The guests are seated.
The bridesmaids and groomsmen are standing in line.
The ring bearer shyly comes forward clutching a white satin pillow.
The flower girl carefully scatters fragrant rose petals along the aisle.

The groom nervously, eagerly watches for the first glimpse of his soon-to-be-wife.

The music changes to the Bridal March. DUH duh duh-duh. Duh DUH duh-duh …

The bride’s mother stands up, and all the guests rise.

The photographer positions herself, ready to get those once-in-a-lifetime photos of a proud father escorting his beautiful daughter to her groom.

And then … a guest takes a little step into the aisle and aims her hot pink tablet at the bride and her father. Read more »

Mazel Tov, Zac and Gina!

By | April 19, 2014

Mazel Tov, Zac and Gina!Zac and Gina are married!

On a picture-perfect Friday afternoon, at the Grand Sierra Pointe in Foresthill, Zac and Gina stood under a Chuppah, recited their personal vows (which were also printed on their Ketubah), and exchanged wedding rings before many of their dearest friends and family members – who shouted “Mazel Tov” in joy and congratulations as Zac broke the glass and kissed his bride!

Mazel Tov, Zac and Gina!

Gina and Zac attended to every little detail, from the specially-drawn artwork on their ceremony program, to the invitation that their guests “take a deep breath, and relax. Notice the stillness that surrounds us, the majestic trees towering overhead and the solid earth that grounds and supports us … allow yourself to be fully present as we prepare to witness the ceremony that will start Zac and Gina on their journey together as husband and wife.” Read more »

Love Never Fails

By | April 17, 2014

The love story of Jason and Jennifer began eight years ago when they met through a mutual friend. It was love at first sight for both of them.  Jason says he fell for her really fast, and Jennifer says she knew immediately that Jason was the man she would marry!

Over the next few years their love grew and deepened as they reached many milestones together, including adding Jaiden, Mason and Brooklyn to their family.

Jason and Jennifer are best friends and soul mates, and they believe that “if you put in the effort, there’s nothing you can’t accomplish.”

As a special part of their wedding ceremony, Jason asked his mother to give a reading based on 1st Corinthians 13:4-8. Her words are beautiful and timeless. Read more »

Happy Anniversary – And Congratulations, Dr. Michie!

By | April 11, 2014

Wedding of Heather Michie and Billy Hofman April 5, 2013

Wedding of Heather Michie and Billy Hofman
April 5, 2013

Who knew that Los Angeles College of Chiropractic would be the place to find true love?!

Heather and Billy met in September of 2009 during orientation for the first term of chiropractic school. At first they were so busy with their studies that they didn’t really notice each other in “that” way.

Eventually, though, they were able to have a bit of a social life, and after a school event at Knott’s Berry Farm they began texting and talking, and getting to know each other. Their relationship grew slowly, but over time they realized they wanted to spend the rest of their lives together.

So after securing her father’s blessing, and planning a very special New Year’s Eve surprise, Billy asked Heather to become his wife and his partner for life. She said “Yes!” and on April 5, 2013, before their dearest friends and family members, they were married in the Villa Courtyard at Arden Hills Resort and Spa.

As their first anniversary neared, I contacted Heather to confirm their mailing address so I could send their special anniversary card.

I knew that Heather had grown up in Northern California, while Billy was a SoCal guy, and that they would eventually need to make a tough post-graduation decision about where to settle down, open their chiropractic practices, and eventually raise a family.

Heather responded to my email, telling me that she had been given the opportunity to build a practice – Michie Chiropractic – in the Rocklin / Roseville California area, and she and Billy had moved to Placer County.

Congratulations, Heather and Billy! I hope your dreams continue to come true, personally and professionally.

And Happy Anniversary! May you enjoy many, many more!
~Rev. Jeri